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26 August 2024 · Updated 11 October 2024

Daily Habits For You and Your Partner When Trying to Conceive

Lexy Pacheco

Lexy Pacheco

Focused chiropractic DONA, certified doula

Reviewed by Lexy Pacheco

Daily Habits For You and Your Partner When Trying to Conceive

In actuality, it might take up to a year for fertile partners to have a child, despite the impression presented by TV and movies that all a couple needs to do to become pregnant is to make funny faces at each other. This implies that in your conception journey, patience and an optimistic outlook are essential tools. However, is there anything you can do to improve your odds each month? Experts recommend the following nine everyday practices to increase your chances of getting pregnant. I believe that if you examine carefully, you will see a rather strong trend.

Despite the perception created by TV and movies that all a couple needs to do to become pregnant is to make funny faces at each other, it may actually take up to a year for fertile partners to become parents. This suggests that having patience and a positive mindset are crucial during the conception process. But is there anything you can do every month to increase your chances? The following nine daily habits are advised by experts to improve your chances of becoming pregnant. I think there's a pretty significant tendency that you can notice if you look closely.

On the other hand, the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) advise seeing a reproductive specialist if you are under 35 and have been trying to conceive for more than a year. To rule out any underlying issues, you should also make an appointment with a healthcare practitioner if you are over 35 and have been trying for more than six months.

Have Sex, & Lots Of It

It should come as no surprise that having many pregnancies boosts sperm count. (It's also enjoyable.) 

Numerous theories exist on sex. Sperm can live for up to three days in the uterus, as is well known. Therefore, some philosophers advise having sex every other or every two days. Usually, I advise attempting to conceive naturally every day. On the other hand, encouraging research indicates that having intercourse twice in a 24-hour period can significantly raise the likelihood of conception.

Why may it be advantageous to practice twice a day? Yang claims that there is a lower chance of contamination or aging in the second batch of semen. However, if twice-daily sex isn't your thing, don't worry. 

Stay Positive

Alright, I understand that this may be easier said than done, particularly if you've been trying to conceive for some time. But you should never undervalue the influence that psychology has on the physical functions of your body.

When a couple seeks his knowledge in fertility, they frequently become pregnant right away, without any help. He believes that relieving oneself and trusting someone else relieves a lot of burden. The mind possesses tremendous power.

Try To Relax

Persistent stress is really bad for your physical health, partly because it is hard to find the motivation to go to the gym or prepare a salad when you are constantly nervous. Regretfully, attempting to conceive can be a significant source of stress in and of itself.

It can be difficult to conceive, and when we decide it's time to establish or expand a family, the stress that comes with living our daily lives doesn't go away. Actually, it typically gets stronger. Better coping strategies for stress are taught to clients by Baby+Co, including journaling, self-care, mindfulness, and breathing exercises.

The one thing you should never, ever do is handle stress in any way similar to how television anti-heroes handle it. Try exercising or practicing meditation if you want to lead a healthy, pregnancy-ready lifestyle instead of binge drinking and overeating. Oh, and it's time to give up smoking if you do.

Last but not least, avoid taking on too much. Fertility Authority claims that excessive exercise can potentially have a negative effect on your capacity to become pregnant. Recall that fertility is all about equilibrium.

Eat A Healthy Diet

You were aware of this coming, correct? Regardless of your circumstances, eating well can only make things better, according to common sense and popular belief. Romano suggests following a variation of the Mediterranean diet, dubbed the "healthiest diet in the world" by Eating Well. It mixes "healthy fats like olive oil, and clean fish, with smaller amounts of meat and dairy, and minimal added sugar or highly processed foods," with an emphasis on "plant-based whole foods" including fruits, vegetables, nuts, and beans.

According to studies, wine consumption may be acceptable in moderation.

Exercise

Some women may find it simpler to become pregnant if they exercise often. Exercise on a regular basis can help balance your hormones and increase fertility, particularly if you have pre-diabetes or polycystic ovarian syndrome (PCOS), which are indicators of insulin resistance.

Because it is so beneficial, exercise is regarded as the "first-line treatment" for infertile individuals. Additionally, you can involve your partner in the activity since research indicates that physical activity enhances the quality of sperm.

Additionally, exercising prior to conception reduces difficulties in the future. When a woman becomes pregnant, she quickly grows new blood vessels that support the developing baby's need for oxygen and nutrients. In the months preceding conception, consistent aerobic activity helps prepare the blood vessels for this explosive expansion.

Starting an exercise regimen right away is especially beneficial if you're overweight or obese. Improving your general health and fertility can be achieved by lowering your body mass index (BMI).

Seek Out A Community

It hurts to look at your social media and see that a million of your college classmates are pushing strollers full of twins or have adorable baby bumps. Consider participating in an online or offline Trying To Conceive (TTC) forum or group to serve as a constant reminder to yourself that not everyone is getting pregnant quickly or easily.

The importance of connection and support is emphasized by Baby+Co. When they have resources and people to turn to for assistance, everyone manages better.

Reduce Your Chemical Load

It is concerning that chemicals and pollutants are present in cleaning supplies, cosmetics, food, and scents, to borrow a phrase from Gwenyth from Goop. Research on the impact of plastic food packaging and water bottles on human fertility is growing, as reported by WebMD. These goods release toxins into the body.

Cutting out on processed meals and additional sweets during your pregnancy attempts can help lower your chemical load. Now is also an excellent time to clean up any pollutants in your home and workplace that can be causing hormone imbalances or cell damage. Good starting points include drinking filtered or bottled water, storing food and beverages in glass containers rather than plastic, and getting rid of artificial aromas (such as air fresheners).

Get In Touch With Your Cycle

Do you know when your ovulation is scheduled? It's 10 p.m.

The majority of people have used birth control methods that have suppressed typical indicators of fertility and have not learnt about the menstrual cycle since high school health class.But after a month or two of experience, you can easily begin to recognize the window of opportunity when conception is most likely to happen.

Ovulation predictor kits (OPKs), temperature monitoring, and a detailed examination of your cervical mucus are all excellent places to start. To find out more about fertility and fertility tracking techniques, speak with your doctor or enroll in a course.

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