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23 July 2025 · Updated 28 July 2025 · Views: 10

How to Stop Doomscrolling and Feel More Present Again

Lexy Pacheco

Lexy Pacheco

Focused chiropractic DONA, certified doula

Reviewed by Lexy Pacheco

How to Stop Doomscrolling and Feel More Present Again

Does this sound familiar? You lose 40 minutes before you know it, and doomscrolling leaves you tired, anxious, and mentally scattered. You didn't mean to go down that rabbit hole, but now you're here, mindlessly swiping your fingers even though your mood is getting worse. This isn't a mistake on your part. Social media and news apps are carefully designed to grab your attention with endless feeds and headlines that make you want to read them. 

The good news is You can change this habit without having to go through a huge digital detox. You don't have to stop using your phone completely or feel bad about it. Small, planned changes that stop you from scrolling on autopilot and bring you back to the present moment are what make a difference. Use these research-backed tips to get your focus and peace of mind back, one scroll at a time.

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Why Doomscrolling Happens

Your nervous system is set up to put potential threats first. This is how people have lived for thousands of years. Modern apps take advantage of this instinct by giving you a never-ending buffet of scary headlines and new things that make you feel good, making you think that scrolling will help you "stay prepared." The digital threat feed, on the other hand, never ends, which keeps you in a cycle of stress: Your body releases cortisol when you look at upsetting things, and then it wants to scroll more to find answers or a way to distract itself, which only makes the stress worse. This isn't just a bad habit; it's a neurological loop in which anxiety makes the urge stronger and the urge makes more anxiety. 

Social media sites purposely add features that take advantage of this weakness: Infinite scroll takes away natural stopping points, algorithmically increased outrage makes you want to fight or run away, and random rewards (like "good news" in the middle of chaos) keep you hooked like a slot machine. What happened? You don't have a weak will; you're fighting a system that is meant to take away your self-control. The first step to getting out of this loop is to see it: Your scrolling isn't random; it's a conditioned response to stress. Blame isn't the answer; smarter boundaries that keep your nervous system safe are.

Looking for Comfort, Finding Chaos

That "quick check" before bed often turns into 30 minutes of reading or watching stressful things, which makes it hard for your brain to relax and sleep well. In the same way, reading scary headlines first thing in the morning can ruin your mood for the rest of the day before you've even eaten breakfast. These patterns create a cycle that feeds on itself: The more you scroll, the more your nervous system stays ready for anxiety, making you want more "updates" to feel in control, but you never get any relief. 

This reader's comment sums up the empty promise of doomscrolling. You might first reach for your phone to connect with someone, get distracted, or find answers, but in the end, you often feel emotionally drained, like mental clutter is piling up. You might forget what you read, but the stress it caused will stay in your body, making you feel tired instead of informed. Recognizing this pattern is important: if scrolling always makes you feel worse, it's not a break; it's a trap.

How to Break the Scroll Habit
Without Going Cold Turkey

Interrupt the Cycle

Start by breaking the autopilot mechanics that keep you hooked: Disable autoplay on videos to remove the endless "one more clip" trap. Designate at least one physical space as a screen-free zone—like keeping your phone out of the bedroom to protect sleep or banning it from the bathroom to create micro-moments of mental stillness. For an extra layer of defense, switch your phone to grayscale mode; the lack of vibrant colors reduces the visual dopamine hits that make scrolling irresistible.

Create a “Scroll Swap” Ritual

Set scrolling limits and give yourself rewards on purpose: Give yourself 10 minutes to check your feeds, and then do something that will ground you, like stretching or making tea. To make your digital space more relaxing, replace newsfeeds that make you anxious with ones that share nature scenes, uplifting music, or poetry snippets. Try the "save one joy post" practice: Every day, save one truly positive or meaningful thing to look at later. This will help your brain learn to look for food instead of chaos.

Use Emotional Cues

Before you open an app, take a 10-second break to ask yourself, "Am I scrolling to meet a real need or just to avoid discomfort?" This little space breaks the habit loop. If you want to scroll to get rid of boredom or stress, text a friend instead and ask them to give you a better idea. Over time, these check-ins change the impulse, connecting emotional signals to better choices.

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Build New Digital Boundaries

Start Small: Claim One Sacred Hour Pick one hour each day that you will always be free of distractions. After work, unwind in your scroll-free sanctuary. During this time, turn off notifications and put your phone out of reach. These short breaks from technology are like "reset buttons" that show you can step away without missing anything important.

Celebrate the Pauses, Not Perfection. Instead of focusing on mistakes, recognize every conscious decision you make: "I felt the urge to scroll and waited 5 minutes" or "I closed the app when my timer went off." These small wins change how your brain's reward system works, so self-control feels like a good thing instead of a bad thing.

"Soft Tracking": Tune Into Emotional Payoffs. After scrolling, ask yourself, "Did this make me feel smart or tired?" Are you connected or alone? Write down one word that describes how you felt before and after scrolling, like "curious → anxious" or "bored → emptier." No judgment, just looking. As time goes on, patterns show up that make it easier to choose differently.

Boundaries aren’t walls to punish yourself—they’re bridges back to the life you want to be living. 

This Isn’t About Control —
It’s About Care

Doomscrolling isn’t a personal failing—it’s your mind’s overzealous attempt to protect you in a world that feels uncertain. But true safety comes not from consuming endless updates, but from grounding yourself in the present. Each time you pause before opening an app, set a kind boundary, or choose a nourishing activity over a reflexive scroll, you weaken anxiety’s grip and strengthen your inner calm.

Progress won’t look like perfection. Some days you’ll catch yourself after 30 minutes lost; other days, you’ll redirect the impulse before it begins. Both count. This isn’t about control, but about returning—again and again—to the truth that you are more than your fears. One breath. One boundary. One small choice to prioritize peace. That’s how the shift happens. You’ve got this.

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